惟仁人为能爱人能恶人。

有一天我很无聊,于是便看了一本书叫《红楼梦补》

然后,被震惊了。

如果你很喜欢林黛玉,怎么样才能让林黛玉和贾宝玉幸福地(注意这个状语)生活在一起呢?

这位牛人的做法是:

先让林黛玉复活。。

然后让林黛玉在复活过程中性情大变,待人宽厚,善于持家。。

然后把薛宝钗弄死。。

基本上,也就是说,让林黛玉变成薛宝钗,然后把薛宝钗弄死,over.

作者还干了一件很牛的事情,就是把晴雯给复活了,再去羞辱了袭人一番。

我一向不喜欢林黛玉,尤其不喜欢晴雯,可是我想,作者究竟是喜欢谁呢?

如果他喜欢贾宝玉,他没有必要去羞辱袭人不是?

如果他喜欢林黛玉……他真的喜欢林黛玉么?

刹那间我想起了子曾经曰过,惟仁人为能爱人能恶人。

五年前曾经读了《浮生六记》。但因为之前已经去过沧浪亭,而后面附的《影梅庵忆语》又让我大生冒襄的气,导致这本民国间被捧得无比高的小书,在我脑海中也只留下了沧浪亭和卤凤爪

——有意思的是,却是那篇回忆到芸娘一般初恋的吴冠中的文章,让我喜欢上了吴冠中。人世间的机缘,真是不可说。

前几日又看一遍,又被震惊了。

为什么明明是写自己的太太,却是仿佛在写青楼女子呢?

这个想法一冒出来,我便批评自己,年纪轻轻,怎么道学气如此重,不好,不好。

可是看完全书,我仍然觉得,香艳有余,轻薄有余,呃,木有什么不足……俞平伯都说了,“他是个习幕经商的人,不是什么斯文举子”。

虽然意在表彰,但儒林文苑之分,仍隐隐可见吧。

看俞平伯等人之表彰此书,多在于所谓“人的觉醒”,甚或借此批判家族制度,醉翁之意,也不过借他人的酒杯而已。

虽说要顾惜古人,虽说文需风流,但作为一个未婚女人,我首先想的只是,我才不要做沈复的老婆。

难怪要讲夫妇大伦,情字虽好,却太容易讲偏。

所谓情深不寿,也是因为深而不正吧。

上周小黑结婚,引起了我们关于为什么要结婚的讨论。

在这个时代,当同居和无后都不是什么问题的时候,总要有些比性和情更多的东西,才需要结婚吧。

这真是一篇没有专业水准的文字呀!

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80 Responses to “惟仁人为能爱人能恶人。”

  1. echo Says:

    嗯嗯,看到香艳二字,我也定要去读
    中间那张路灯图片所为何来?…

  2. 全都是风 Says:

    反正对于第一章我的界定是香艳文,当然有人会界定为清雅文也未可知。。
    路灯!那分明是个裸女!

  3. zeng Says:

    踩过来,于是懒得踩回去留言,所以留言,是为了表示握手。

    原来我们这么纲常。哈哈哈哈

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